art of life..

         ” All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on.”

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your masterpiece….

One of the greatest benefits of focusing on your passions in life, is you get to see creativity and artistry everywhere you look. Nature is a perfect example of artistry at work, with purpose and intent. The flowers, the trees, the ocean, even the leaves blowing restlessly in the wind, all seem to serve a distinct purpose.

Suddenly you see people in a whole new way and you begin to wonder, what is their passion? What are their dreams? Do they know what they long for and intend to bring about in their lives? Do they even know how?

Here’s the funny part, a lot of people don’t know what their passion is and thinking about a dream they may have, seems as foreign as believing in fairy tales and being rescued by a man on a white horse. And still, at some time in all of our lives, we dreamed of far away places to travel, saving the planet from destruction, being the president, or a painter, or a business owner, or a dancer, or an artist… well you get my drift. We all had dreams when we were kids and if you are living out your dreams, than kudos to you and to the people around you who support and encourage you to take a risk on yourself and live BIG and Out Loud!

But I know some people who didn’t get that kind of encouragement and so it is a struggle to find out where their creative passions reside, and where to find that quiet voice that sings the siren song that is their dream? A woman told me recently that she imagined her life, “like it was a painting, and I was a talented artiste’, and I just colored in the life I wanted to have until I had created the masterpiece that is my life.”

It sounds so simple and so wonderful, but how do you begin to know what to put on the canvas? What are the rules and what if you, gasp, make a mistake? What do you leave out or even worse, what do you put in? What if your dreams are not practical but instead are fanciful?  What if you believed in the possibilities of your dreams?

Well, here’s the good news, it is your masterpiece you are creating, your one life,  there are no wrong answers. You must do two things however, and it is nonnegotiable, you are required to tell yourself the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Then  tell a few friends or family that you trust and who will encourage and support you, and then you have to go to the edge of the cliff, look out over the horizon, take a deep breath and Jump!

Yup, I said it, Jump! If there is a dream inside of you that keeps whispering in your ear, “try this,” and you keep ignoring it, well it is indeed, time to jump! If the dream always comes back and nags you, beseeches you, and you keep thinking of all the reasons why it you can’t make the dream come true, STOP!

Challenge yourself to think of a few reasons that it might come true and then step, dear friends out on faith. If you have had a dream for your life and you’re not living it, it is time to make it happen. There are no dreams too big or too small, it is all about you, what do you see on your life’s canvas?

I want to encourage everyone to live their lives on their own terms, painting in the places and people and things that you want to see in your life, coloring your canvas. You see, if you’ve heard this dream whispering in your ear over and over, time and time again, it just may be because it is your purpose in this life, your destiny to make this dream a reality.

Friends, please consider this, it is quite possible that it is something only you can do in your time here on earth.  Why else would you have the same thought, “If only I could….” if you weren’t supposed to get about doing just that? Somewhere deep down inside of you is the artist waiting to paint your life just the way you imagine it, don’t you think it is time to grab a brush?

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                                                                    What you think about you bring about….

fear’s sunset….

Four years ago my father passed away and he gave me the greatest parting gift ever, only I wouldn’t understand its value for at least another year. Urgently, during one of his last days, he said to me, “Don’t let fear rule your life!”

In my grief and misery I was unable to hear the treasure those words imparted, but a year later as I began waking up, I asked myself;  is fear ruling my life? Am I making life decisions expecting the worst outcomes possible and therefore I don’t try anything new at all? The truth, friends, was staring me right in the face, fear had settled comfortably in my heart, soul and spirit. 

So I set out to find my version of happiness and to challenge my arch enemy, fear. I would need clarity if I was to find my life’s purpose and I so I embarked on a quest for the true meaning of happiness. I devoured religious books, self-help books, books about the laws of attraction, how to find your inner artist,  and books that asked the eternal question: who am I? It all boiled down to one thing, no one but me can define what happiness is and happiness has to begin with me, within me.

First, I had to think about my aspirations and then I had to take a leap of faith and start living without looking over my shoulder for the ominous, ever-present, dream-stealing nemesis, you got it, fear. Secondly, I had to be quiet, get still and become an observer of my thoughts and align them with my actions and surround myself with friends that support my dreams and are also reaching for their own stars in the sky.

My friends did not disappoint, when I stepped outside of the shadow of fear, my friends became my greatest cheerleaders and fear fell further back, its reach extended but not quite touching me anymore. I found my courage and suddenly I recognized the bravery and courage of the people around me, artists in their own rights, molding, re-shaping and creating their own life’s dream and I was heartened, fear would not dare rear its ugly head here.

I found a whole community of artists who shunned fear in favor of boldness, they exuded a certainty that they have something to contribute to the world, and their confidence bolstered my own. I thank each and every one of you who embarked on your own creative journey to find your inner artist and share it with the rest of the world, I know that takes guts and fearlessness, and I am in awe of each one of you.

My father gave me a gift that cannot be measured and that I am, only now,  just beginning to understand its magnitude and scope. It is simple really, if I allow fear to be my life’s guide, my life can only be small, my dreams and aspirations unfulfilled and I am only half of the person I came to this earth to be.

So I traded in fear for faith and instead of misery, I get to live a fulfilling,  joy filled life, with my most heartfelt dreams coming true and I am going to leap higher than I could ever imagined before, thank you Dad.

floating contemplation….

I believe that there is a subtle magnetism in Nature, which, if we unconsciously yield to it, will direct us aright.  ~Henry David Thoreau